Asking a girl flirty questions is less about the perfect line and more about curiosity with a spark. You want her laughing, talking about herself and wondering what you will ask next. Here are 60 flirty questions to ask a girl, from playful to spicy.
Playful openers
- What is the most fun thing you have done this month?
- What is your go-to karaoke song, and are you good or is it a crime?
- What is your idea of a perfect date?
- What is the cheesiest thing a guy has done to impress you that actually worked?
- What was your first impression of me?
- What is your hidden talent?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
- What is one thing that always makes you laugh?
- If you could have dinner with anyone, who and why?
- What song describes your vibe right now?
- Are you more of a spontaneous or a planner?
- What is your favorite thing about yourself?
- What is the best compliment you have ever received?
- What is something you are weirdly competitive about?
- Morning person or night owl?
Flirty texting questions
- What are you wearing right now? (Kidding. Mostly.)
- What is the first thing you noticed about me?
- What is on your mind right now?
- If we were together right now, what would we be doing?
- What is your favorite way to spend a rainy day?
- What would you do if I showed up at your door with dessert?
- What is the best text you have ever gotten?
- Do you get nervous around people you like?
- What is something that instantly makes a guy more attractive?
- Should I take you for coffee, drinks or an adventure?
Make the next date a game
Couple Games: Date Night has flirty truth or dare, most likely to and a love quiz. Perfect for a second or third date at home.
A little deeper
- What makes you feel really seen by someone?
- What is something you are passionate about that most people do not know?
- What is your biggest dealbreaker?
- What does your ideal relationship look like?
- What is the most romantic moment you have ever had?
- What makes you trust someone?
- What is a place you want to travel to with someone special?
- What is the kindest thing a guy has ever done for you?
- What is your love language?
- When do you feel most confident?
Spicy questions (18+)
Read the room. If she is enjoying it and asking back, keep going. If not, go back to playful.
- What is the most attractive thing a guy can do without saying a word?
- What is your biggest turn on?
- What is your favorite kind of kiss?
- Where do you like to be kissed?
- What is one fantasy you would actually try?
- What is the most spontaneous thing you have done for romance?
- What outfit makes you feel most confident?
- What is the sexiest thing a guy has ever said to you?
- Slow and romantic or playful and wild?
- What would you do if I kissed you right now?
- What is something you have always wanted to try on a date?
- What is your idea of a perfect night in?
- Have you ever had a dream about me?
- Do you prefer to make the first move or be chased?
- Describe our chemistry in one word.
Flirty would you rather
- Would you rather go stargazing or dancing?
- Would you rather get flowers or a handwritten note?
- Would you rather I surprise you or plan with you?
- Would you rather kiss in the rain or on a rooftop?
- Would you rather cook together or order in and play a game?
- Would you rather have breakfast in bed or a late night snack run?
- Would you rather have a weekend in Paris or a cabin in the mountains?
- Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or go to a concert?
- Would you rather know what I am thinking or keep guessing?
- Would you rather play truth or dare with me or never have I ever?
What actually works: ask, listen, then share your own answer. Flirting is a two-way street, not a questionnaire.
Want these as a game?
Couple Games: Date Night puts truth or dare, most likely to, never have I ever, story mode and a love quiz on one phone. Free to download.