50 Dares for Couples (Silly, Sweet, Flirty and Spicy)

50 dares for couples sorted by heat, from silly and sweet to flirty and spicy, plus dares you can do over text or long distance.

Dares are where truth or dare gets physical, silly and sometimes a little bold. For couples, the best dares mix three things: something that makes you laugh, something that makes you blush and something that makes you feel closer.

Here are 50 dares for couples, sorted by heat. Mix and match, or pick a level for the night.

Silly dares

  1. Do your best impression of me waking up.
  2. Speak like a pirate for the next three turns.
  3. Let me draw a mustache on you with eyeliner.
  4. Do a dramatic reading of your last text.
  5. Wear your clothes backwards until the next round.
  6. Let me pick a song and you have to lip sync it.
  7. Balance a spoon on your nose for ten seconds.
  8. Do an interpretive dance of our relationship.
  9. Let me post a photo of my choice on your story.
  10. Try to make me laugh without speaking.

Sweet dares

  1. Give me a two-minute foot or shoulder rub.
  2. Tell me three things you love about me while looking in my eyes.
  3. Write a short love note and hide it somewhere for me to find later.
  4. Slow dance with me to the next song.
  5. Plan our next date out loud, in detail.
  6. Cook or make me a snack right now.
  7. Recreate our first photo together.
  8. Hold my hand for the rest of the game.
  9. Whisper your favorite memory of us.
  10. Give me a compliment you have never said out loud.

Dares with a heat dial

Couple Games: Date Night has truth or dare with levels you pick together, so you can start sweet and turn it up when you are both ready.

Flirty dares

  1. Kiss me on the cheek, then the neck.
  2. Sit on my lap until your next turn.
  3. Feed me something without using your hands.
  4. Give me your most seductive look for ten seconds.
  5. Whisper what you are thinking right now.
  6. Trace a heart on my back with your finger.
  7. Describe my best feature like a movie trailer.
  8. Let me choose your outfit for tomorrow.
  9. Kiss me like it is the last scene of a romcom.
  10. Hold eye contact with me for one minute.

Spicy dares (18+)

Agree on the level before you start. Either of you can pass anytime.

  1. Give me a 60 second massage. You choose where.
  2. Remove one item of clothing (your choice).
  3. Blindfold me and kiss me somewhere unexpected.
  4. Tell me a fantasy in three sentences.
  5. Let me pick your next truth and your next dare.
  6. Give me a private dance to one song.
  7. Kiss me for 30 seconds without using your hands.
  8. Whisper exactly what you want to happen later.
  9. Use an ice cube to trace a line on my arm. Slowly.
  10. Pick a spot in the house other than the bedroom for our next kiss.

Dares for texting or long distance

  1. Send me a voice note saying something you have never said.
  2. Send a selfie right now, no retakes.
  3. Text me your favorite memory of us.
  4. Change your wallpaper to a photo of us for 24 hours.
  5. Send me a playlist of five songs that remind you of me.
  6. Tell me what you would do if I were there right now.
  7. Send me a photo of what you are wearing.
  8. Plan a video date for this weekend.
  9. Write me a three-line poem.
  10. Call me and say goodnight in the most dramatic way possible.

Rules that keep dares fun: no dares involving other people without their consent, nothing that could hurt anyone, and a pass is always a pass.

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