Never have I ever is a confession game disguised as a drinking game. With a group it is chaos. With a partner it is something better: a fast way to hear stories you somehow never heard.
How to play never have I ever as a couple
- One person reads a statement starting with “Never have I ever…”.
- If you have done it, you take a sip (or lose a point, or put a finger down).
- Whoever did it has to tell the story. That is the real game.
- Take turns reading. First to lose five points picks the next date.
Non-drinking version: use fingers. Everyone starts with five up. Put one down each time you have done it. First to zero gives the other a massage.
Funny never have I ever questions
- Never have I ever pretended to know a song at a concert.
- Never have I ever texted the wrong person something embarrassing.
- Never have I ever eaten food that fell on the floor.
- Never have I ever faked being sick to skip plans.
- Never have I ever stalked an ex online.
- Never have I ever cried at a commercial.
- Never have I ever laughed at a funeral.
- Never have I ever lied about my age.
- Never have I ever re-gifted a present.
- Never have I ever tripped in public and pretended I meant to.
- Never have I ever gotten lost in my own neighborhood.
- Never have I ever sent a voice message I immediately regretted.
- Never have I ever forgotten someone’s name right after they told me.
- Never have I ever practiced a conversation in the mirror.
- Never have I ever snooped through someone’s phone.
Relationship never have I ever questions
- Never have I ever been jealous of one of your friends.
- Never have I ever checked your phone when you left the room.
- Never have I ever pretended to like a gift from you.
- Never have I ever told my friends about one of our fights.
- Never have I ever planned what our wedding would look like.
- Never have I ever thought about breaking up with you.
- Never have I ever said “I love you” first in my head long before I said it out loud.
- Never have I ever read your messages over your shoulder.
- Never have I ever worn your clothes when you were not around.
- Never have I ever lied about where I was.
- Never have I ever deleted a text so you would not see it.
- Never have I ever had a crush on one of your friends.
- Never have I ever pretended to be asleep to avoid a conversation.
- Never have I ever compared you to an ex.
- Never have I ever screenshotted our chat to show a friend.
Never have I ever, built for two
Couple Games: Date Night has a never have I ever mode written specifically for couples, plus truth or dare, most likely to, story mode and a love quiz.
Flirty never have I ever questions
- Never have I ever thought about you during a boring work meeting.
- Never have I ever sent a flirty text and then panicked.
- Never have I ever picked an outfit just because I knew you would like it.
- Never have I ever wanted to kiss you in the middle of an argument.
- Never have I ever kept one of your hoodies because it smells like you.
- Never have I ever flirted with someone to make you jealous.
- Never have I ever had a dream about you I did not tell you about.
- Never have I ever planned a date just to see you dressed up.
- Never have I ever been turned on by your voice on the phone.
- Never have I ever wanted to skip the party and just go home with you.
Spicy never have I ever questions (18+)
Save these for later in the night, when you have both warmed up.
- Never have I ever kissed someone in a public place I should not have.
- Never have I ever had a fantasy I was too shy to mention.
- Never have I ever sent a spicy photo.
- Never have I ever been caught making out.
- Never have I ever wanted to try role play.
- Never have I ever skinny dipped.
- Never have I ever woken up thinking about last night.
- Never have I ever used a blindfold.
- Never have I ever made the first move.
- Never have I ever wanted to try something new with you but did not ask.
Make it a better game
- Always ask for the story. A sip is boring. The story is the game.
- No punishments for honesty. Laugh, do not judge.
- Write your own. After a few rounds, make up statements that are clearly about the other person.
- Switch games when it slows down. Go to truth or dare or most likely to.
Want these as a game?
Couple Games: Date Night puts truth or dare, most likely to, never have I ever, story mode and a love quiz on one phone. Free to download.

