This or that is the fastest game there is: two options, no thinking, just pick. It is perfect for texting, car rides, or warming up before a bigger game night. Here are 100 this or that questions for couples.
Food and drink
- Pizza or burgers?
- Coffee or tea?
- Sweet or salty?
- Breakfast or dinner?
- Cook at home or order in?
- Wine or cocktails?
- Sushi or tacos?
- Chocolate or ice cream?
- Spicy or mild?
- Brunch or late night snack?
Lifestyle
- Beach or mountains?
- City or countryside?
- Morning or night?
- Summer or winter?
- Plan ahead or go with the flow?
- Cats or dogs?
- Books or movies?
- Gym or yoga?
- Big party or small dinner?
- Road trip or flight?
Entertainment
- Comedy or horror?
- Netflix or YouTube?
- Concert or festival?
- Series or movie?
- Board games or video games?
- Rom com or action?
- Podcast or music?
- Karaoke or dancing?
- Reality TV or documentaries?
- Theater or cinema?
Level up from this or that
Once you are warmed up, switch to truth or dare, most likely to or the love quiz in Couple Games: Date Night.
Relationship
- Big wedding or elope?
- Surprise gift or planned gift?
- Text or call?
- Say it or show it?
- Holding hands or arm around shoulders?
- Date night in or date night out?
- Handwritten letter or voice note?
- Cuddle or space when sleeping?
- Talk it out now or cool off first?
- Matching outfits: yes or never?
Romantic
- Candlelight dinner or picnic?
- Sunrise or sunset?
- Slow dance or wild dancing?
- Flowers or chocolates?
- Love song or love letter?
- Kiss in the rain or kiss in the snow?
- Weekend in Paris or cabin in the woods?
- Stargazing or city lights?
- Bubble bath or hot tub?
- Movie marathon or long walk?
Flirty
- Hoodie or dress shirt?
- Cologne or natural?
- Morning kisses or goodnight kisses?
- Neck kisses or forehead kisses?
- Flirty texts or flirty looks?
- Big spoon or little spoon?
- Shy or bold?
- Playful teasing or sweet compliments?
- Eye contact or whispers?
- Make the first move or wait?
Spicy (18+)
- Lights on or off?
- Slow or fast?
- Morning or night?
- Plan it or be spontaneous?
- Talk or silence?
- Bedroom or anywhere?
- Blindfold or eye contact?
- Lead or follow?
- Massage first or skip it?
- Truth or dare?
Would you rather lightning round
- Know everything or feel everything?
- Never be late or never be tired?
- Always be cold or always be hot?
- Relive the past or see the future?
- Be famous or be rich?
- Fly or be invisible?
- No phone for a week or no coffee for a month?
- Speak every language or play every instrument?
- Live by the sea or in the mountains?
- One perfect day or ten good ones?
Make it a game: answer on three. Every mismatch, the person who picks the weirder answer has to explain.
Want these as a game?
Couple Games: Date Night puts truth or dare, most likely to, never have I ever, story mode and a love quiz on one phone. Free to download.